So last night I watched a video about dating and texting, etc... what it means when a guy stops texting you and what to do about it, etc... The guy on the video said that if you texted someone once and they haven’t gotten back to you, he may not be into you. But if you are the type who likes “closure” and you really want to know, he said you should send one last text that says “Saw something that reminded me of you today...” and that’s it. If he doesn’t text you back, it is OVER and to never text that guy again. As you may have guessed, I am a closure kind of person but I thought the text was a bit too flirty for where I think Brook is at currently so today I decided to send a modified one that said “Just heard that song you told me about and it reminded me of you. Hope all is okay.”
And then, shortly after sending it, he texted me back... “All is okay. How are you?” Since I had just texted him, I couldn’t think of a reason to wait too long to return his text so I texted him about 15 minutes later and we had a nice conversation. I ended the conversation after about ten texts though and said I had to go but that it was nice to hear from him and I was glad he was doing okay and hoped the rest of his shift went well (he was at work). He texted me back to have a great day and that he would talk to me later.
So...we’ll see. My sister reminded me that he doesn’t know what I’m thinking or that it bothers me that I haven’t heard from him for a week. She thinks he has been really honest in saying that he needs to take some time to figure himself out and that he will get in touch with me when he feels like he has done that. She thinks he probably doesn’t want to start anything too soon with me and kind of wants to put things on hold which is hard to do if you are talking to each other every night the way we were before. She says I should just forget about it for awhile, be friendly when he does contact me but let him take the lead and not try to force anything by suggesting we get together. I know she is right and I do still think he is a good guy so I’m gonna take her advice and stop trying to control the outcome (definite 180 for me...lol).
