HI EVERYONE - Yes, I'm still alive! Hope everyone is well! I miss everyone here.
My goal coming into the new year 2020 was to move on and not dwell on my situation every day and be able to truly detach, so I have been focusing on work and real life rather than spending my time on the board.
Status update...
I'm currently moving forward with the refinance of the home to my name only, so I can buy out my WW (STBXW at this point).
We are still amicable. She claims that I gave up on the relationship. I just laugh and remind her that she's moved in and is still living with OM.
On a more interesting note...
I've been learning more deeply about Myers Briggs (MBTI) in hopes of understanding myself and other future potential partners better, and tested that I am an INTJ. It's surprising how accurate some of the descriptions are in how I am in relationships as well as my strengths and weaknesses.
I asked my WW about it, and she said that she tested ENTJ before. I think both of us were very similar - cold and logical (not emotional) in relationships, but we both had emotional needs that the others were not able to provide each other aside from the shared activities that we had.
I strongly suggest that every couple take the MBTI questionnaires to understand themselves and their partner better. It can help fill in some of the gaps, along with other relationship theories such as 5 Love Languages, etc.
