Giving up the control feels so much better than the spinning.
This is such a relief to get to this stage. It's not giving up, but it's really the first major step at recognizing our WAS as separate beings who have autonomous thoughts and desires. She needs to figure those out. You figure you out. And if i works that you both want the same thing - that's amazing. But none of us are in control of anyone but our selves, and I personally think the sooner we *truly* learn that lesson and don't just give it lip-service the sooner we feel amazing and start living our authentic lives.
Originally Posted by KristinG
Vday was good. I made myself some crispy chicken thighs, roasted okra, and roasted butternut squash. Made a big bubble bath and soaked with a nice bourbon.
Uggghhh after my heart here grrrl. I need a bourbon bubble bath. I'm putting it on my to-do list.
****** In other - totally non-DB or R based news: have you heard of Lex? It's a lezzie dating app. I just discovered it via an Autostraddle article (posted this week if you're curious) which had me dying laughing and now I want to get on it just for the hysterical reading. Not looking to post profiles, but certainly looking for entertainment. I'm not on it yet, this isn't me endorsing it but I'm curious if other lesbians have actually heard of it or if it's still a bit fringe-y.
