[funbun]

Hi Scott,

From your last post you seem to hold a lot of guilt within you. I, too, felt the same way. I kept thinking about the mistakes I’ve made and the horrible things I’ve done to my W. If I could turn back the past, I would do everything differently.

Acknowledging your mistakes is important. However, do not beat yourself over it. It will only slow down your healing and growth. Forgive yourself and make amends. Listen to the others here, take the time off from your W and use it to process yourself. Your W needs that time and space too, in order to find her feelings and maybe find forgiveness for you.

Find your inner peace.