Lol Wayfarer your posts crack me up! I’m sure if I was a guy I would adore you for your sense of humour!! That’s what I love about my R with H, in the face of all this adversity, we can still crack jokes through the tears, and laugh about the mess we are in.
I have no words of wisdom how you handle the current sitch. I feel like I am a complete failure at the DBing, however, while you have a little control , to keep hold of it, I would say back off a little now, if he texts, don’t reply straight away, act flirty but without coming on to him. And yes totally agree about keeping the shop closed!
Pommy my dear, you've had a rough couple of days. And you aren't a total puddle of emotional goo on the floor (even if you did fall apart for a little bit). I'd say that's pretty successful DBing.
We have both made a lot of jokes but only recently since he started acting more like himself again and gave me room to let my guard down a bit. Humor has been the center of our relationship even when we were just friends. We have a very similar sense of humor. It makes this mess all the easier when I feel like I'm losing my whole life, or my mind.
I'm thinking about you Pommy. I hope you know that.
