If a WW gets plastic surgery to make herself more attractive for OM (which is always what it is for and, in your W's case, is certainly what it is for)... YOU DO NOT PAY ANY PART OF THAT!!! She is doing that and incurring that expense to spice up her R with the OM. You don't even think of dividing the marital "expenses" until she excludes/covers the plastic surgery. PERIOD. END OF DISCUSSION.

There's no way in h3ll you should have to bear ANY of that expense... c'mon, man! If it was more expensive than she anticipated... OH WELL... LESSON LEARNED FOR HER. Any expenses related to her A or to prettying herself up for OM or for travel to see or be with OM or to otherwise carry on or spice up the affair(and some include cell phone bill here, as well) MUST be borne by the WW.

Are you really going to let yourself be charged $$ so that she can better carry on cheating on you?

Last edited by job; 02/22/20 11:13 PM. Reason: edited language
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18

"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7

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