Lol Wayfarer your posts crack me up! I’m sure if I was a guy I would adore you for your sense of humour!! That’s what I love about my R with H, in the face of all this adversity, we can still crack jokes through the tears, and laugh about the mess we are in.

I have no words of wisdom how you handle the current sitch. I feel like I am a complete failure at the DBing, however, while you have a little control , to keep hold of it, I would say back off a little now, if he texts, don’t reply straight away, act flirty but without coming on to him. And yes totally agree about keeping the shop closed!


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020