You’ve pointed out how it’s impossible to tell what he’s thinking or why he’s acting that way. I’ve noticed from time to time my WAW will become nicer for awhile and I’ve never figured out why. Sometimes I think she is alleviating her own guilt. Sometimes I think it is genuine. Sometimes I think she forgets what we are going through. But one thing for sure... as long as I am confused, I keep trying to stay detached and not get sucked into wondering what she is thinking.
That being said I’m sure seeing the envelope was tough and has you wondering what is going on? Do you have any reason to think you would need to protect yourself legally?