I have compassion for you brother and I can feel your pain in your posts. The good news is honestly as long as you don’t turn into a complete dick you really can’t make yourself situation any worse. The bad news is that there is nothing you can do to stop the D process. That is why I am trying to steer you to detachment. Doing as much as possible without her. For me it took awhile to get use to doing things alone with my kids because it was always the four of us. It took a really long time for me to get comfortable with it. Those are the types of things I want you to get out in front of right now. I understand the pain is unbearable right now but I promise you that it won’t stay like that forever. Unfortunately this a journey that you have been forced to participate in.
