Thanks AS. I'll send that email this evening when I get back from the gym, or might wait to send it tomorrow morning.
I feel I'm not moving on in the full sense that I don't want to be with W or care about anything, but more moving forward - more a sense of addressing issues, tackling them, improving, GALing, etc. - which I think is more positive.
I'm still in the dark about final payments for the house. The solicitors and agents have been awful, totally non-communicative to me. I assume it'll happen this weekend/Monday next week as haven't heard contrary.
In a way I'm glad W has felt the stress of this - she would have put all this on me if we were mutually selling the house to move somewhere else, so it's good she's had to do a lot of the work. I still regret moving my stuff out back in May. I should have refused and stayed put. That would've been a significant 180. Oh well. Right now, I feel better about myself and that's the important bit isn't it?
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020