Also, don't scratch for the money to have a legal consult if you have to pay. Use a credit card loud and proud. That will be his first experience with the glorious world of divorce and he better get used to it. He'll probably end up paying your attorneys fees. Might puncture the fantasy a little.
Email Virginia and ask her if they will put the two of us in contact. Worth a try at least.
You're going through the worst of it now. It does get better.
