It seems to me it’s because he treats you well, is up front about how he feels about you and it has the beginnings of something that could actually turn into something long term... and you aren’t having to fold yourself into a pretzel or “spackle” to make it fit. Yes...early days...but...seems pretty good so far. And the small world part is cool...a “sign” perhaps??? Everything happens for a reason, IMO. Enjoy Ginger. You deserve it!!!