Yep. I did a LOT of research and found some excellent advice in some very unusual places. I wish we could communicate because I'd be happy to share it with you. I will tell you one resource that was very helpful to me was MWD's video series on the Last Resort Technique. It works very well if you follow it and her manner in the videos is very comforting. It's only about $200, I'd buy it and watch it. In fact, it was the first thing I bought when this happened to me.
