There is where you have to be careful right now. A huge weight has been lifted from her shoulders and she is going to be more relaxed now which can make you think she’s having doubts. After my ex filed we went to a kids birthday that Saturday and she acted completely normal. It was weird.
I’ve always said your sitch is like mine. Are you familiar with enneagram personality traits? Well I’m a 7 and she was a 3. 7s are the life of the party. You would think that could be a good thing right? Nope. I was told by my counselor that she is probably jealous of the attention I get which builds resentment.
Part of losing her identity of being LHs wife.
This is why most of this is $hit there going through.