I know you aren't fully familiar with my sitch - what I meant to imply was that if my W and I do fully reconcile (we seem to be working closer to that end goal) than combined we are in debt and we will figure out how to handle that as a family. But I also don't want to be in more debt if we can at least try to plug the leaks now.
If we don't R than she'll be responsible for her own debt and I'll be for mine.
As for the judgment...she may, but I can't control her feelings. She's also well aware that she's not good financially as she brought that up to me after a recent IC session. I'm hoping I can not come across as judgmental though as I'm only trying to deal with reality.
Yes, I've been through a lot this past 15 months. I'm doing what I can to become better because of it. I know I'm a better Dad now, a better friend, and no doubt I'll be a much better husband...hopefully with my W but I can't worry about things that are out of my control.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
