Thank you guys for the support. I sent the text and expected a million questions but why would that happen when he’s so self absorbed??? After all that worrying I got back “ok I’ll be away too.” Good lesson for me here. Thx job ...it must be frustrating sometimes to have us LBSs circle in the same spots of fear, sometimes too close to the situation to see the light. Love the quote Cardinal I will screen grab that one. Thank you. And I 100% let you know if I make the rolls ...my nephew and brother would love them!! Enjoying myself on my 4 day get away...then back to reality and meeting with hopefully my last L who I will like and can then hire. Also job I called the cc company and would you believe that because H is the primary I can’t request anything on his card which we used most often...if I can’t get it I’ll just have to go,through the L.