May/June are a ways off and anything can happen. Focus on today and allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Do what works and if something isn't working right now, don't do it again. Detachment is something that is difficult for all who come here, but eventually people understand that it is not for the person who is left, but for us, i.e., to help us learn how to react/not react to the things they say or do.
Here's the deal, if you want to ask her to go do something, put it out there and allow her to make the decision as to whether or not to go....but your expectations have to be zero. I would plan activities for myself and give her some space and time. You might be surprised and discover that she will pursue you if you just go on about your business. Right now, to me, you are the pursuer, Step back, give her the space she needs and definitely focus on you and more importantly, focus on today as it is a gift and should not be wasted.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
