I believe that author was talking about disengaging completely. That's different than healthy, loving detachment. Google self differentiation in marriage for a better idea of what we refer to here by detaching.

Scott, most of us go through the "giving her time and space can't work" feelings. By all means if you think your sitch is the 0.001% where pursuit, pressure, romance and courting can work, then go for it. But you better be pretty close to 100% sure about that or you'll end up D'd faster than you could imagine.

Trust the process.

Last edited by Steve85; 02/15/20 04:35 AM.
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