With the reading I’ve done on the message board related to the pursuit - distancer dance, I’m just wondering if my wife is going through a MLC or if she is a pursuer at the complete end of her rope. According to the book, if she is a pursuer at the end of her rope then giving her space could backfire. All of this stuff is so confusing. I feel like some of it has to be left to God.
Years ago i read Hold Me Tight and remember thinking that if my wife had become unattached with the EA then I was in real trouble. I’m not sure she ever “re-attached” after that and in the book the author made the point the once someone truly detaches they never come back.
That’s another spot i get confused sometimes when people on here talk about detaching. Anyhow, the link on Pursuer- Distancer was interesting. I’ll continue to read it.
