I think reading here and being prepared for the craziness helped A LOT. Because many things do happen by the book. So it allows me to detach and not think my sitch is anything special, because I’ve read crazier things here!!
I agree you handled that craziness so well, wooba! What you're saying here reminds me that one of the most zen moments in the last eight months for me was when my H started yelling for the first time since BD and spouting lines, word for word, that I'd read here or in DR or in various other MLC articles. I think seeing things happen "by the book" allowed me to level-up in terms of detachment... and then maybe I've plateaued since then. Ha.
Originally Posted by wooba
Oh, and I need to share this. When I deny that I ever said that I’m looking for a man, he told me to stop acting like TRUMP with the alternative facts!!! This one will go into my H’s crazy quotes hall of fame.
Thank you for sharing that gem! Wow. Sometimes all you can do is laugh. Wooba, I hope you are showing yourself some love today. Sending hugs!
