Sorry it's come to this, but I think in the long run it's the healthiest thing for both of you. And who knows, there may yet be recon down the line somewhere. Sometimes it has to be "over" before it can "begin again".

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57