Midlife wife crisis13

[Wolfman]

You still want your wife, but you have a gf, one day she’s great, another day she’s too immature, another day you are going on vacation with her, and if you break up you will work on being alone.

You are all over the board.

I am just saying what’s going on in my life at the moment, as far as the GF. I want o be with my GF, just saying what was going on. I can say it does look like my emotions are all over the board. I don’t want to break up with her. But if something did happen I would be single for a while. I usually jump from one relationship to another.

I know I said some things about my ex. But we are way to far gone and I don’t think I could go back to her. She has destroyed way too much. One thing that will not change is the family dynamic. I miss that. It has nothing to do with my ex. Meaning down the road I would hope to have a family again. Whether it’s just being with another woman and having my kids or starting a new family.

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Disappearing...so let's go to Brazil. Maybe these travels will make my EW jealous and she'll realize what she's missing???

I am not doing this to make ex jealous. I’m going because I want to spend time with GF. If we weren’t going I would just be spending the time with her here.