Boy am I a glutton for punishment. You just said 11 hours ago that we are all right and your girlfriend needs to grow up and you need to learn to be alone and now you are off to Brazil. Are you going to take the free trip and then dump her? I’m sorry you come here look for validation and I’m not giving it to you. I’m gonna call you on your BS. I’m pretty sure you are a narcissist. I know first hand because my father is one. Talk to your IC about it.
You are right I did say she needs to grow up. But I never said I didn’t want the relationship. I look at it this way. No one is perfect. Is she immature right now? Yes. But there are so many great qualities that we share, both into fitness, same idea on intimacy, she loves to cook, we both like an neat and clean home, she is very honest and loyal, she is always so interested in my mom and kids, I love to show her affection, and making sure I speak her love language. As far as the alone part. IF we break up, then, yes, I would want to be alone for a while. No dating just focusing on myself and my kids. But I do want the relationship. She is young and hopefully over time she will mature. Oh and I am paying for the airfare for Brazil and Splitting the room. Maybe my last post was not clear. I want to be with my GF, I just want to slow it down and not have her move in so fast. But if things for some reason didn’t work out I would NOT BE JUMPING into another relationship. I would be alone. That’s fine that you call me out. I’m not looking for validation I always s want the truth even if it hurts.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20
