only you can answer these questions.

I know that's not particularly helpful but it is true..

no what you want. you cannot negotiate anything unless you know what you want.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver