It’s still way too soon, only 4 dates, but wow a lot of ground has already been covered and quickly.
So Don based on your response of way too soon my guess is your thinking 8 dates wtf??? I don’t think my mother waited that long with my dad in 1956. For starters you don’t even know if she did the deed as she never said anything. Second imo 4 dates is too long. At that point your either A not attracted to one another or B hung up on some obscure number that in your mind society doesn’t view you as a slut. I want a woman who is going to be true to herself and go with her feelings and if things get hot and heavy and she feels safe and comfortable with me she goes for it. I’m not going to think oh she slept with me on date 3 she must be a slut. We are all adults and are in control of our own sexuality.
I hope my response doesn’t ruin my chance for the cruise. I like you Don but you need to loosen up a little.