I noticed the drinking thing, too, and wondered about it. I mean, to each his own and I'm not questioning it. I just thought I remembered your saying it would be a deal breaker if someone didn't. I'm not a huge drinker, though I'm all about some good cold beer from time to time and margaritas are always welcome in my presence, plus a pickleback shot every once in a great while is EXACTLY what I need, but I have dated men who were heavy drinkers and men who didn't drink at all and it just doesn't matter to me either way. For some being a drinker would be a deal breaker. For some not being a drinker would be a deal breaker. For some, doesn't matter either way. My only issue with a non-drinker would be if made a big deal out of it when I wanted to have something and just couldn't let it go, for whatever reason. I'm an adult and if I want a drink, I'll have one. In my current situation, Sparky is a much heavier drinker than I am.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids