What I have been trying to communicate is that you deserve better. We all come here trying to save our marriages and have this fantasy that our exes our going to see the light and beg us for forgiveness. That rarely if ever happens. If it does it’s usually way down the road when they can truly see the devastation they have caused. Even the ones who reconcile have it tough. My friends W cheated 16 years ago and he never got over it and is ready to D. He said after that every time she was late or got a phone call he wondered in the back of his mind what she was doing or talking to.
Divorced life have its challenges but it beats the heck out of a shitty marriage. There are so many available women out there who had the same thing happen to them and are just looking for an honest man.
You deserve better and you will realize it some day.
Haven't heard form you in a while. Wanted to say thanks "LH". You were spot on and I am moving forward with divorce. I will be giving her the papers to sign today. We will be splitting amicably. Still haven't got her out the house but it is on the market with a realtor. Divorce papers ask her to move out within 10 days.
