Hmmmm... been watching videos lately about attraction and how it happens...and, more importantly, how it sticks around. It is human nature that everyone likes a challenge, in particular men. So the experts always advise that you walk this magical line of interested but not too interested...available but not too available...and that you don’t let the other person know that they’ve “caught” you until you are well into a relationship. In this modern dating world of swipe left and right, it seems particularly important as there is always another option if you get too comfortable or bored with the one you have. Maybe you are one of those people who likes a challenge and this has just been too easy for you?
Jumping in to say I had a conversation with a close guy friend recently about this and I basically told him to walk that line. I gave him examples of how not to be, and also of what I think works.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
