It’s good stuff. And maybe I’m used things being a wreck and so much effort. This seems almost effortless. And I really like that. Because lord, I feel like I take on some insane full time job with these men I date. Effortless is nice.
Plus he loves my dog and my dog loves him. That’s always a bonus! My dog was laying in between us with his head on E’s chest. It was pretty freakin’ cute .
First of all - the dog’s opinion counts. Seriously - there are studies on it.
Second - people who grow up with chaotic or difficult parents often have a problem with being attracted to the same in partners because it’s familiar. You have to learn to be conscious of that tendency. And say to yourself “I deserve someone solid that I don’t have to pursue”.
