Life goes on

[kiro]

Wooba, I love how you just wished your H to find his way for his own sake.

For me, it’s a very difficult thing to do: wishing my exW good for her own sake, after what she has done to my family. The most difficult part to overcome is injustice. Even if I forget or forgive what she did to the family, to the kids and me, it’s not easy to get passed the unfair things she said: Drawing a very negative and gloomy picture of our MR, disregarding and denying all the good times we had and the good & loving things I did for her, blaming me for the MR breakdown and blaming me for her irresponsible actions, insulting my parents and siblings and blaming them for all kinds of lies although they loved her as a part of their family and treated her really well, saying all kinds of lies during mediation in order to get a few extra $$ from me, and so on...

It’s not bitterness. I never think about these things and I never felt really affected by these words because I know most of them are lies. I don’t wish anything horrible to happen to her, but I can’t wish her good either. Until she apologizes or at least admits the unjust things she said, I just stay away from wishing her anything, good or bad. I don’t know if this makes any sense... Just speaking my mind...