This really is a watershed moment for you isnt it. Stay strong, maintain PMA and keep DBing. Don't lapse, don't falter - keep DBing.
I'd reply with a list of the things you intend taking. Say if you don't hear back with any objections, you'll then take them. Short, to the point and businesslike.
More questions invites more interaction which leads to more emotional pain. Trust me it will be better for you emotionally if you don't meet up at the house. Your time will come when the complete, fully modded very best version of Dan 2.0 is revealed to her.
Her disorganised packing could be reflective of her scattered mind. Don't dwell on the disorganisation of her life.
You may be 2 ships passing, but you're also that lighthouse as well.
Proud of how far youve come mate. Keep going!
Cheers DS
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
