Yail ~ Thank you for thoughtful response - I want to respond in more detail to you (and may) later when I have more time.
Real quick though... when my W alludes to things she doesn't want to write about, what she means is her "child safety" concerns. "Things that happened". etc. She probably means she wants me to develop a "child safety" plan similar to what she insisted on when I first moved out.
I am not playing that game anymore.
Otherwise, she does negotiate over text willingly.
