Separated and facing divorce (Part 3)

[DonH]

I think you did well today too fireman. I have always thought your sitch has a chance as long as you stop shooting your self in the foot. So from here, and some have already said this so I’m just reinforcing,...

- Don’t say again about not wasting money and trying to stay together. She heard it. She knows. Now let it be her idea.

- Put huge focus and effort into your kids and being the best dad you possibly can.

- DO NOT date any women and for double sure NO SLEEP OVERS at any location with anyone!

The Hope here is your W has started to see that the downsides of D may be much higher than she thought. If she sees that it might be better and easier to R than D she may consider it as long as she doesn’t think you are out dating and bedding every chick you can. This does not mean you can’t GAL and be mysterious just don’t have cars in your drive overnight.

If you keep going on this path you may be one of the few that get a chance here. Just be patient. It’s going to take a long time for your W to believe this new you is real. She’s starting to wonder now if it is. Don’t give her any reason to say, “I knew it, I knew he could not change.” Don’t let that happen.