I spoke to a friend that is sadly about 8 months ahead of me in his divorce. I asked him how he deals with the pain. He likened it to a football injury. He said I have to appreciate that I just snapped my collar bone in the field; he’s figuratively going through rehab. He said the trauma has just been very recent and that it hurts. Nothing is worse than having the one person in the world who stood up and said they would love you no matter what reject you. So much pain, so a book rec please.