BE AWARE THERE MAY BE OTHER REASONS THAN WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD
Originally Posted by Steve85
You need to brace yourself for the other shoe to drop: There is a strong possibility of another woman. Be prepared. AnotherStander is a very wise poster here and he says there are two kinds of sitches: those that involve another person, and those that haven't found out yet that there is another person.
I do not tell you this to freak you out, but to prepare you. We've seen many DBers that do a great job at starting to DB well, and then let it all go by the wayside the minute they find out there is an A.
A or no A, your job is the same. Give him time and space. Focus on you. Go out and GAL. 180 on any bad behavior. And work on detachment.
Buckle in, this is a marathon, not a sprint.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
