This is making me miss a) hearing H rant about work (which is another thing he would say he doesn't let get him down, but I suspect that's another area of his life he'll have to deal with having feelings about at some point) and b) doing H's laundry. Silly, yes, but I was laundry and he was dishes, and when he got his own laundry basket and started keeping all of his clothes in his room, it felt like yet another little jab, another way he couldn't wait to separate his life from mine. REALLY, it was/is probably just him being an adult and doing his own laundry. Wayfarer, I think you wrote on your thread a little while ago something about always thinking of your H as yours, no matter what happens. Maybe I'm remembering that wrong. But that's what I've been feeling and and still feel.
Wooba, when you say you sometimes feel like you're the only one living this reality, and that need to correct him kicks in, ah, I get that. That really gets to me, feeling like I'm the only one, and I need to take may's advice too.
