Seriously.... What is this "contract"? Where do you live? Is it in the United States?
Was it entered before a domestic relations court (or any court)? Does it specify penalties for violation of the promises/covenants made therein? If the answer to both of these is "No", then there is little she can do if you "reneg" on the contract other than to stop performing whatever promises she made.
I am not a divorce lawyer but I AM a lawyer (and blessed to be pretty spectacularly good one, in all modesty) and I have NEVER heard of anything like this outside of a divorce decree. Never. And i have been asking around since i started following your thread.
You need to get this figured out pronto and get it put to bed (or, preferably, incinerated) PRONTO... because it is really effing you up and definitely interfering with your ability to DB.
Further addendum:
Please put the pertinent provisions of this "contract" in a post... because I feel like most of us here don't know what the hell it is and it is very frustrating trying to give you advice and support not knowing what you are dealing with.
Last edited by hoosjim; 02/12/2006:43 PM.
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