she is also talking about moving in with a guy she's only known for a few weeks and is now talking about me buying her out (when we can) instead of her buying me out.
She is acting completely irrational but I have no choice but to let her go. I will continue to do 180s and DB for me. Her actions and the speed of them scare me.
If and when she moves out, I will feel so much better for it. I'm looking at primary custody of my kids. She is not allowed to take them out of state or out of town.