I had him doing chores the other day and he mentioned if living with me is going to be like this then he would be with his mom. That hurt and cut pretty deep. I just looked at him and said, "you are my son and you will do what I ask you to do whether you like it or not because in the end I provide for you. You will not play me against your mom."
Perfect. Just because there is a hard time going on doesn't give anyone an excuse to behave wrong.
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One of my biggest lessons in all of this is people will treat you however you allow them to treat you.
Love that phrase.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
