Originally Posted by hoosjim
I think it can actually be a valuable tool in the "Be mysterious, be fun, be attractive" area. In my own sitch, prior to DB, I had almost no SM presence
This is good.

I am not a social media guy. I have a couple of DB friends on my Instagram who cannot attest that I posted once in 2019. When I downloaded Snapchat in 2018 my wife got a "people you know" thing from Snapchat and it made her think I was talking to other women, dating, etc. It aroused concern. I got rid of that after a week of never using it.

I also made a Facebook in 2019. I mostly regret it, but did it for my business. I found a waterfowl group and met a guy who likes to hunt as much as me so that worked out well. Waterfowl hunting lasts almost 6 months of the year too, longer if you travel for it.

Definitely show your W and don't tell. The best thing you can tell friends is that you aren't 100% but you are moving quickly in that direction (that's my opinion, R2C's suggestion may work better for others).

Originally Posted by Mumin
W- I told D1 she can call if she want.
Me- You can also call if you want.

Shouldn't have said that last part I guess...

Probably a good idea to leave that part out next time, it's not a big deal though.

What money is she needing to transfer?


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.