Still married couple from Scandinavia Part 2

[BenB]

Journal -

I´ve made some small mistakes I think. The first one was when I responded to her request for tickets for her friend. I should have answered what AS wrote, not that I don´t know the promoter. That sort of leaves the door open for her to contact me again. I should have understood that. And she sure did.

A day later, another famous burger place in my hometown reposted my instastory where I hailed them as the best burger I´ve ever had. W is blocked from my instagram but she follows them and could see their repost. So she sent me a screen shot of that and just wrote "haha :)" She tried to small talk but I kept it short and polite. So far so good.

But so I went to New York with my brother to try the famous Emmy burger(it was just ok). W messaged me when we were at a bar and recommended another burger place near us. I should not have responded and I hate to blame alcohol but I responded that I was in NY about to have the famous Emmy burger. She immediately started writing more -

W: Cool, hopefully not just for the burger? haha.

Me: Yep, just for the burger.

W: Hahaha

30 minutes later she writes again

W: You have to send me a picture of the burger when you´re there!

I should know better than responding to that temp check. Seriously, there are hundreds, if not thousands of pictures of that burger online. But I sent her the video my brother filmed of me taking a first bite of that burger.

W: How was it??

Me: still not better than the one near us

W: What! That´s crazy!

I came to my senses there and didn´t write more after that. Yesterday W emailed me again, this time responding to the email where I told her I can´t sort the tickets and said she understands and will let her friends know. She then asked if I can wire her some more of her money so I did but didn´t write anything else. It´s sad that she asks for money because it shows how irresponsible she still is. End of this year she´ll have no more financial support from me I can easily see how she´ll be in trouble then.

I´m disappointed with myself because I fear all of the above sends her mixed signals. I´ve previously told her not to contact me unless it´s important but now I'll seem to have softened up a bit. The paranoid side of me wonders if she knows about her sisters upcoming London trip and wants to join in on that. I don´t think so but you never know.

On a different note, I went on my second date with that girl last night and it went really well. More about that in my next post...