I’m planning on packing up the rest of my stuff next week on [days]. I’ve got a van booked on [day] so I should be totally out by the end of the day. That will leave you the full weekend to move all your stuff out. Is that an ok plan of action? Not sure about all the bits and bobs, I’m planning on taking half the towels and half the bedding. I’m really not bothered about all the little things so if there is anything in particular you want just let me know. W"
Very impersonal. Frustrating as she hasn't really answered my questions. I was going to respond later today and say something along the lines of:
"W OK. Can I assume that I am to take everything from [xyz] if you haven't packed it up already, and also am I taking [small list of other things that I assume I will keep as she hasn't mentioned them]? Just need to clarify. Thanks, D"
Looks like we'll be ships passing in the night to take our belongings, our house will be sold, and then that's it. I feel sad about it and have a lump in my throat today. She is so distant. I'm going to keep DBing though. All that I've achieved in the last 6 months away from her has been for my benefit.
Last edited by DaB35; 02/12/2011:56 AM.
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020