Hi all, thank you so much for your answers R2C, ovr, hoosjim, AS, ! Super helpful!
Will read through everything with notes tonight.

Journal /Update
Last night wrote about her house keys and that she still hasn't transfered money for this month.
Ask if the surgery is happening.

This morning :
W just called because the alarm in the house went of.
She was home after surgery. She said she Mostly felt good. Physical pain

W- Say hi to kids if you want.
Me- Of course I will.

W- I told D1 she can call if she want.
Me- You can also call if you want.

Shouldn't have said that last part I guess...
I get worked up and almost nervous to talk to her.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021