My previous thread is locked, so if everyone here can read the old thread and keep me going with your great advice I would appreciate it. I am doing the GAL, and will have the literature, to read in a couple weeks when I get home from overseas. Its tough, and is taking allot of patience to not analyze and to leave her alone, not pursuing etc. But, thanks to Steve85 and others, I will do it... Whether or not my marriage works out is dependent on things I have no control over.. https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2881318#Post2881318