WAW - is it too late?

[mtb1981]

I would keep the phone records to myself. Once the WW finds out where you're getting information from, they'll switch things up to keep the A underground...

I've seen mixed views and results of exposing the A to the OMS. I'm sure it probably feels good in the moment, but I feel like it would cause more problems in the long run. WW get mad when you start meddling in their fantasy. Like I said, I've seen cases where it benefits the LBS and cases where it doesn't...

I think you're definitely making the right decision regarding not going on the trip to see her family. I don't think it will affect your kids as much as you think. It will most likely get her wondering what you're up to, and that's good...