Sandi2, thank you for your response, I think a lot of what you said sure seems to apply to my WW. All of it seems to be things she is doing.
I'm just not sure if she cares what the "right" thing is unfortunately. She has been a bit wild in her past and always commented how meeting me really changed her life. It feels like she is just going back to her old ways, maybe I was boring, I don't know? She is young, and probably not where she wants to be in life right now...
I don't believe I have mentioned one major thing, as I was so focused on what has been happening the last few months. So the first time she talked to me about her unhappiness was shortly after she quit her job. The job that she went to school for and was supposed to be her career. She got another job, that really should have been temporary, that she still has now. It's just a mundane job that a teenager would have, not challenging at all. So this is certainly a dynamic that changed in our life as well. Before this she had a very taxing day and purpose in her life, after this her day was boring, and then she comes home to just boring normal life as well. Just something that adds to maybe why she has chosen this new path in life?
Anyway, the one update I do have, is she continues to delay things. She keeps saying she doesn't fully understand the process and wants to make sure we are both protected. That's fair, I get it she is nervous about things. So she wants to sit down with a professional to make sure we are doing everything correctly. I said that's fine, lets get it done. We will see how long this takes now...
