That's quite normal, over time the good days get more frequent!
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*I've been reading a lot here and started to wonder if I should make my "position" more clear? For instance, the way you've been acting is NOT ok. Won't share a future with you (apart from strictly kids).
I wouldn't, she doesn't want you anymore (for now) so what does she care about your threats about not sharing a future with her. She thinks she doesn't want a future with you anyway. Plus it's likely to come off as some desperate threat to try and get her back. Often when the LBH figures out he can't "nice" the WAS back then he tries to "mean" her back. When that doesn't work he goes back to nice. Keeps flipping back and forth. It just looks desperate to the WAS. Like R2C said- actions not words.
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*I post some things (sometimes with kids and sometimes just me) on Social media. Maybe she thinks I'm trying to show her how good I'm doing without her? I guess in a way, I am.
When it comes to SM then it's best to continue old patterns. If you hardly ever posted then don't go overboard posting content, because she'll see it as pursuit (which you've admitted it is). If you just posted stuff now and then, then continue to do that. But whatever you do, DO NOT post pics of you with a new lady, or memes about marriage, separation or divorce. She's looking for an excuse to blow up on you, don't give her one!
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*What's a good response when mutual friends ask how I feel?
"Awesome, how are you?" Be short and generic. If they ask about your M then reply "we're both taking some time to think about what we want" and leave it at that. Make it about you, if they keep pushing then talk about your GAL and what you're doing to be a better person.
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*Should I Send pictures of kids? For instance now that we will be away skiing without her?
It depends on her interest level. If she's asking about the kids then go ahead and send one or two of JUST the kids, not of you. If she doesn't ask or show interest at all then don't send anything.
