It sounds like you need to be honest with this young lady and move on. She don't need to be in your life at the moment, you can't make her the priority she wants to be and it's nothing wrong with that. Just be honest and upfront and let her know that you have more important things you have to take care of right now and you need time for yourself and kids. Joejoe
I was honest with her about where she stood as far as priorities. She doesn’t like that the kids are number one. Only number one as far as living arrangement. If the roles where reversed I would understand if a woman said to me I don’t think my kids are ready for this. I told her I still want the relationship and she can stay over my house when kids are not around, which would always be Sunday to Thursday and every other weekend. Just the weekend that my kids stay with me she wouldn’t be able to stay until my kids get use to this new arrangement and we know our relationship is solid. I think that is very fair and reasonable.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20
