House completion will be in a few weeks.

L rang me Friday, left message asking if 17th Feb is fine! Way too short notice. Neither of us have time to clear out our stuff. They're terrible!

I will arrange the lock up this week. My parents have said they'll go halves on a larger unit as they're starting some home improvements and will take advantage of the space. Gives them a chacne to sort through stuff in their house. The furniture I'm kepping plus my other items will go in there. I'll then take a day off work Friday, and go up to the house with my parents to box as many of my things up as I can.

A week should be enough time.

Haven't emailed W yet about the final bits and bobs we haven't decided on.

One thing I noticed regarding the cards I had sent W over the years; she'd left them at the top of the pile (i.e. very conspicous) of stuff she'd put in my study. The cards I'd sent her are in a box in her room. I genuinely thought she'd throw them away. I'm probably searching for meaning for something that isn't there, but thought it odd how she'd leave it there visible, rather than perhaps hide it amongst paperwokr or DVDs or something.

Any advice/thoughts on my longer posts above would be really helpful as I'd appreciate any insight (or 2x4s, or 4x8s!).


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020