Look man I know this isn’t easy because you’re trying to keep your family intact. I’ve been there. Right now your 100% focus should be on protecting the innocence of your little girls. I don’t care if you have to break agreements or break faces you will not regret it. I have seen first hand on my ex’s side what happens when a father doesn’t protect his daughter. She never forgets it. Don’t be that guy. Your w is replaceable trust me. Your daughter’s innocence isn’t.
LH is right on, here, doc. You gotta protect those little girls from this. You don't want them exposed to the kind of dirtbag that would mess around with a married woman, and i can practically guarantee you it was going on prior to when your W is telling you it did.
Also... you are absolutely effing crazy if you think that ridiculous agreement you keep clinging to is worth the paper it is written on. I don't know what jurisdiction you are in, and I can't ethically give you legal advice because you are not a client and I don't know your sitch but... I am a frikking attorney and I can guarantee you with near certainty that the worst ramification you would face from tearing up that POS agreement and peeing on it in front of your W [LEGAL DISCLAIMER-- NOT ACTUAL LEGAL ADVICE] would be her throwing a tantrum... which might actually be a good thing at this point.
Get. Your. Balls. Back.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
